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The cycle of violence refers to a pattern of behavior on the part of the abuser that keeps the victim confused and off-balance. As the abuser swings through the various parts of the cycle, he can transform from a charming lover to a frightening brute to an apologetic, tearful child as he begs for forgiveness. Between explosions, there can be periods of calm. However, the victim never truly relaxes because she knows that something - anything - may set off the next explosion. |
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Explosion Phase The chaotic world inhabited by victims of domestic violence is actually comprised of predictable phases. When all appears “normal,” a violent explosion may be imminent. Honeymoon Phase After the explosion, which may be verbal, sexual or physical, the honeymoon phase of apologies and promises of change begins. The abuser’s remorse is genuine - he does not want to lose the person he controls. When his world is once more secure, the courting stops and life returns to normal. Tension-Building Phase But, his partner can recognize signs of approaching trouble as the tension-building phase begins once more. When the cycles become shorter and explosions more frequent, the severity of violence usually intensifies - often to lethal levels. Treat more frequent episodes of intensifying violence as a warning to SEEK HELP! |
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CODA - P. O. Box 1775 - Beaufort, SC 29901 Crisis Line: 843-770-1070 or 800-868-2632 Administrative Line: 843-770-1074 Fax: 843-770-1084 email: coda@islc.net
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